Saturday, October 30, 2010

The Lion in the Marble

Sermon preached by the Rev. Lowell E. Grisham, Rector
St. Paul's Episcopal Church, Fayetteville, Arkansas
October 31, 2010; 23 Pentecost; Proper 26, Year C
Episcopal Revised Common Lectionary


    (Luke 19:1-10) – Jesus entered Jericho and was passing through it. A man was there named Zacchaeus; he was a chief tax collector and was rich. He was trying to see who Jesus was, but on account of the crowd he could not, because he was short in stature. So he ran ahead and climbed a sycamore tree to see him, because he was going to pass that way. When Jesus came to the place, he looked up and said to him, "Zacchaeus, hurry and come down; for I must stay at your house today." So he hurried down and was happy to welcome him. All who saw it began to grumble and said, "He has gone to be the guest of one who is a sinner." Zacchaeus stood there and said to the Lord, "Look, half of my possessions, Lord, I will give to the poor; and if I have defrauded anyone of anything, I will pay back four times as much." Then Jesus said to him, "Today salvation has come to this house, because he too is a son of Abraham. For the Son of Man came to seek out and to save the lost."
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I want to start with an image I first heard years ago from the late Henri Nouwen in his fine little book Clowning in Rome.  It’s a story that has been around a while and may be familiar to you, but the metaphor is compelling, I think.

A child wandered into an artist’s studio and happened across a sculptor who was working on a large piece of marble.  The man struck the rock purposefully with his hammer and chisel; chips of marble flew everywhere.  It looked perplexing to the child.  After a while the work seemed tedious and boring, so the child left.

Months later the child returned to see the sculptor doing some detail work on the block of marble which had become a majestic and powerful looking lion.  “Sir,” the child said, “how did you know there was a lion in the marble?”

The sculptor answered, “I knew there was a lion in the marble because before I saw the lion in the marble, I saw him in my own heart.  The secret is that it was the lion in my heart that recognized the lion in the marble.”(1)

What is it in Jesus’ heart that allows him to look at Jericho’s chief tax collector and to see a man of generosity and great potential?  How can we begin to see such potential in those who look so awful.

A little bit about tax collectors.  In the Roman Empire, a tax collector purchased the license to be authorized to collect taxes for the occupying Roman government and its armed forces.  There was no salary for a tax collector.  A tax collector just charged whatever he could exploit and squeeze out of the tax payers, with the help of Roman soldiers, if necessary.  When John the Baptist told tax collectors, “Collect no more than the amount prescribed for you,” he was saying, in essence, “Get out of the business.”  A tax collector’s income was his legal graft.  Think corrupt subprime mortgage agents on steriods.

Rome exacted a heavy burden of taxes, primarily the poll tax and the land tax, but also smaller tolls, imposts, duties, tariffs and such.  In a large, prosperous city like Jericho, the chief tax collector would be extraordinarily wealthy.  And hated.  Zacchaeus administered an extensive and powerful system that extracted large sums of money to underwrite the occupation of Israel by Rome, and to fund the extravagant activities of the ruling elite as well as their ambitious military exploits.  Few people in Jericho could have been as despised as Zacchaeus, the chief tax collector.

“Zacchaeus,” Jesus said.  “Hurry and come down; for I must stay at your house today.”  The reaction is immediate.  “All who saw it began to grumble, and said, ‘He has gone to be the guest of one who is a sinner.’”  That sounds pretty mild to me.  I imagine this is an act that could have provoked a riot, had Roman soldiers not been present.  It was outrageous; scandalous.  In that culture, to eat with another person was a public expression of acceptance, approval and friendship.  Only the thoroughly corrupt and compromised, the arrogant and impious would have dined with Zacchaeus.  Yet Jesus, a Rabbi, invites himself to Zacchaeus’ home.

The other reaction is immediate.  “He ...was happy to welcome [Jesus]. ...Zacchaaeus stood there and said to the Lord, ‘Look, half of my possessions, Lord, I give to the poor; and if I have defrauded anyone of anything, I will pay back four times as much.’”  Stunning.  His whole income is fraud.  He’s willing refund with interest.  How did Jesus know that kind of lion was in that marble?

How do we train our eyes to see the potential good within those people and circumstances that repel us?

I remember Thich Nhat Hanh’s interview right after 9-11.  He is a Vietnamese Buddhist monk who worked rebuilding villages destroyed during the war in his country.  He knows war personally; he knows the smell of a village massacred.  Soon after the tragic attacks on the U. S., Thich Nhat Hanh was asked what he would say if he could speak to Osama bin Laden. 

If I were given the opportunity to be face to face with Osama bin Laden, the first thing I would do is listen.  I would try to understand why he had acted in that cruel way.  I would try to understand all of the suffering that had led him to violence.  It might not be easy to listen in that way, so I would have to remain calm and lucid.  I would need several friends with me, who are strong in the practice of deep listening, listening without reacting, without judging and blaming.  In this way, an atmosphere of support would be created for this person and those connected so that they could share completely, trust that they are really being heard.

After listening for some time, we might need to take a break to allow what has been said to enter into our consciousness.  Only when we felt calm and lucid would we respond.  We would respond point by point to what had been said.  We would respond gently but firmly in such a way to help them to discover their own misunderstandings so that they will stop violent acts from their own will.
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That answer humbles me. 

I find I become so angry and so reactive when I see people whose acts and words violate values I hold dear.  I want to stop them; punish them.  I imagine diatribes that would correct and properly humiliate them.  I don’t look to offer them dinner invitations.

When Barbara Crafton was here, she said that she puts the people she most despises first on her prayer list.  She urged us to pray for our enemies, but carefully.  She said pray blessings for them, but don’t linger too long.  At least not long enough to suggest to God what kind of blessing would be most appropriate for them, lest our hostility spoil our prayer.

Inside every human being is a child of God.  Sometimes that image is hidden beneath cold rock-hard surfaces. 

At the very core of your being is a child of God.  You are God’s beloved.  Only when we know our true identity as God’s beloved – safe, secure, infinitely loved – can the child of God in us recognize the child of God in the other.  Too often we are blinded by our own hostilities and fears.  We tend to judge ourselves harshly, and then we are more likely to project our darkness on to others.

Part of what we do here every week is to return to our origin, to our home in the heart of God.  We bring our weakness and failure and guilt and give it all to God, who accepts everything with infinite mercy and love.  We renew our identity as God’s beloved children, infinitely valued and cherished.  We are fed with heavenly food and strengthened, so that we may leave this place renewed, refreshed – like happy lions.  Majestic and strong, unafraid and secure – ready and willing to see the image of God in every other person, place and circumstance, including those, like Zacchaeus, who are so profoundly disguised. 

We will leave this holy place resolved to continue to chip away at all the hard rocks that hide God’s presence, strong enough to persevere with patient vision, because we can imagine the lion within – the hope, the possibility, and the sure presence of God deeply alive within very fabric of all creation.  The secret is that it is the image of God within our own hearts that will allow us to recognize the image of God in all its hard, marbled disguises.  
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(1)  I couldn’t find my copy of Clowning in Rome, but did find the same story repeated in Spiritual Direction, by Henri Nouwen, Michael Christensen & Rebecca Laird, p. 16-17

(2)  An interview by Anne A. Simpkinson of beliefnet.com
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Saturday, October 09, 2010

Living Happier, Longer

Sermon preached by the Rev. Lowell E. Grisham, Rector
St. Paul's Episcopal Church, Fayetteville, Arkansas
October 10, 2010; 20 Pentecost; Proper 23, Year C
Episcopal Revised Common Lectionary

Luke 17:11-19 -- On the way to Jerusalem Jesus was going through the region between Samaria and Galilee. As he entered a village, ten lepers approached him. Keeping their distance, they called out, saying, "Jesus, Master, have mercy on us!" When he saw them, he said to them, "Go and show yourselves to the priests." And as they went, they were made clean. Then one of them, when he saw that he was healed, turned back, praising God with a loud voice. He prostrated himself at Jesus' feet and thanked him. And he was a Samaritan. Then Jesus asked, "Were not ten made clean? But the other nine, where are they? Was none of them found to return and give praise to God except this foreigner?" Then he said to him, "Get up and go on your way; your faith has made you well."
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I have a prediction.  I predict that the Samaritan leper who was healed – the one who suddenly turned back to praise God with a loud voice; who fell at Jesus’ feet in an expression of joyful thanksgiving – that man will live longer than the other nine who were healed.  I base that prediction on some fascinating research that is going on at the University of Pennsylvania and elsewhere as part of a new movement called “Positive Psychology.” 

Positive Psychology is the rigorous study of what goes right with people, how and when we flourish, what gives us resilience, and how we achieve fulfillment and meaning.  That’s not a bad description of what we’re up to here at St. Paul’s as well.

Maybe you read about the groundbreaking study of a community of 180 nuns, the School Sisters of Notre Dame in Milwaukee, trying to measure their happiness and longevity.  Monastics lead remarkably similar lives in many ways.  They share routine, shelter and diet.  They don’t drink to excess or smoke.  There are lots of similarities in their life styles.  Yet there is wide variation in how long nuns live and how healthy they are.

Listen carefully to these two autobiographical sketches from two novices, each writing in 1932 about taking their final vows.

First, Sister Cecelia:  
God started my life off well by bestowing upon me grace of inestimable value....  The past year which I spent as a candidate studying at Notre Dame has been a very happy one.  Now I look forward with eager joy to receiving the Holy Habit of Our Lady and to a life of union with Love Divine.

Next, Sister Marguerite: 
I was born on September 26, 1909, the eldest of seven children, five girls and two boys....  My candidate year was spent in the mother-house, teaching chemistry and second year Latin at Notre Dame Institute.  With God’s grace, I intend to do my best for our Order, for the spread of religion and for my personal sanctification.
 
Did you notice the differences?  Sister Cecilia used the words “very happy” and “eager joy,” both expressions of effervescent good cheer.  Sister Marguerite’s sketch, on the other hand, included not a whisper of positive emotion.  Sister Cecilia was still alive in 2002 – ninety-eight years old and never sick a day in her life.  Marguerite had a stroke at age fifty-nine, and died soon after. 

Researchers read and quantified the amount of positive feeling in 180 similar autobiographical sketches of the sisters.  They found that 90 percent of the most cheerful quarter were alive at age eighty-five, but only 34 percent of the least cheerful quarter was.  Likewise, 54 percent of the most cheerful were alive at age ninety-four; 11 percent of the least cheerful were. 

The study found that the amount of positive feeling expressed in their autobiographical sketch was the only factor that corresponded with their longevity.  How devout they seemed, however intellectually complex their writing was, any expressions of unhappiness or of how much they looked forward to the future was irrelevant.  It was all about expressing positive emotions.

At the heart of these studies of Positive Psychology is the centrality of our sense of gratification stimulated by meaningful experiences, especially in times of challenge when we must rise to the occasion.  One of the key positive emotions is gratitude.  Thanksgiving.  Appreciation. 


When one of the healed lepers “saw that he was healed, [he] turned back, praising God with a loud voice.  He prostrated himself at Jesus’ feet and thanked him.  And he was a Samaritan.  Then Jesus asked, ‘Were not ten made clean?  But the other nine, where are they?’ ...Then he said to him, ‘Get up and go on your way; your faith has made you well.’”

Thanksgiving, gratitude, is key to our health and happiness.  I want to offer you two gratitude exercises that one of the leaders of Positive Psychology promotes – Martin E. P. Seligman, the author of Authentic Happiness. 

Exercise 1:  Select someone from your past who has contributed to your well-being, someone whom you’ve never fully thanked.  Write a one-page letter expressing what that person has meant to you.  Take your time.  Be detailed.  Then find a way to meet face-to-face with that person.  No need to say why; a simple “I just want to see you,” will do.  Laminate the letter, sit down with that person and read it slowly, with expression and eye contact, and give the person the letter as a gift.  Let the other react unhurriedly, and reminisce together about the events that mean so much to you.  Dr. Seligman says that his students report a long-lived, powerful sense of deep gratification and happiness is planted in them after such an exercise.

Exercise 2: Set aside five free minutes each night for two weeks.  Think back over the day and write down up to five things in your life that you are grateful or thankful for:  “Waking up this morning.”  “A deep friendship.”  “Thanks to God for helping me persevere.”  “The Beatles.” 

Researchers find measurable changes in life satisfaction and happiness when people try these exercises.  When people make the expression of gratitude and thanksgiving an intentional practice in their lives, they experience greater happiness and health.

Participation in meaningful activities contribute more to our well-being than mere entertainment also.  One of Dr. Seligman’s students tutored a third-grade nephew in arithmetic, and found “for the rest of the day, I could listen better, I was mellower, and people liked me much more than usual.”

We are into meaning at St. Paul’s, and we strive to create many opportunities for meaningful practice.  Tutoring, feeding, nurturing young people; music, prayer, learning and growing.  And everything we do is grounded in praise and thanksgiving.  We are a Eucharistic community.  Eucharist is the Greek word meaning “Thanksgiving.” 

I believe that if you throw yourself into the worship and prayer, service and learning that we share here at St. Paul’s, and you cultivate he expression of your positive emotions in those things, you will be happier and healthier. 

If you will practice being a Eucharistic person, a person of thanksgiving, you will grow in well-being. 

We are entering our annual stewardship campaign.  I want to say something that I think is important.  Do not pledge to St. Paul’s only out of duty, and certainly not out of guilt or grudgingly. 

If you contribute to St. Paul’s, do so out of thanksgiving.  First, out of thanksgiving to God for all that you have received from God’s benevolence.  Let your gifts to St. Paul’s be a joyful and emotional expression of your gratitude to God.  And second, give out of thanksgiving for what this church does to connect people with God and one another, and to serve to increase thanksgiving and happiness not only among ourselves, but also toward others.  If you give to St. Paul’s, do so with gusto and joy, because you are thankful for all that happens through this church for the well being of so many.

In all things, be joyful, be thankful, be optimistic.  God is accomplishing wonderful things through us; ...through you.  So many good things come to us as pure circumstance, pure gift.  Find ways to express your gratitude and your positive emotions.  Grandma was right: “Count your blessings.”  At least five every evening.  Be the one-in-ten who turns around in mid-step, gratefully praises God, and comes back to Jesus with concrete expressions of joy and thanksgiving. 

And...  I have a prediction.  If you increase the frequency and intensity of your expressions of joy and gratitude, you’ll live a longer and a happier life.
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Reference for this sermon: Martin E. P. Seligman, Authentic Happiness, Free Press, NY, NY 2002
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The Mission of St. Paul's Episcopal Church is to explore and celebrate
God's infinite grace, acceptance and love.

For information about St. Paul's Episcopal Church and it's life and mission, 
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